About me and my boyfriend..idk what to do about the problems?

So me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year..we've broken up a few times because for the last few months we've been fighting randomly about everything..we love each other so much no matter how mad we get one of us runs back, when were not fighting we have fun alot of fun together and we're both inlove. but for the past couple months I've been feeling kinda bored of everything and I'm the type to want to do something crazy and exciting. its been causing tension along with a few oither things, but heres the weird thing he's lebanese and his family told him about a week ago to choose between me or the family..their family owns a restaurant and they threatened to not give it to him when they moved away they want him with a lebanese girl their old fashioned I guess you could say..and well, I'm a white girl lol but anyways he finally broke and ended things but this time it was serious for the past few days he's been going back and forth with what he wants, he does want to be with me then he doesn't he wants time to think but he loves me... he wants space then wants to know what I'm doing he's messin with me head..idk if I should just start over or wait for him but what he is doing is making me feel like crap..